Why I'm helping people

Sometime help people is self satisfaction. (Public Domain)

The older I am, the less I am materialistic. Over time, I begin to find that money is not everything. More than my money begins be of the meaning of my live help of others. Previously I helped people financially, but over time I found that helping people don´t must be just material (monetary) but also spiritual.

I have found that even if you do not have money, you can help people with, for example, kind words, encouragement, compliments, finding a job, providing information, negotiating cooperation through acquaintances, or other thousands of ways. Cash help is just a small part of these options as you can help people

The golden rule says that we should give 10% of the profit to the charity. It brings happiness. In addition, I give 10% of my time to help others because the material aspect of help is just a small part of how you can help people. If you help other people than material, so you will spend more time with them and naturally deepen your relationships with them. Such help has a deeper spiritual effect for you.

For example, recently I was with friend, single mother which I helped to watch of her son, or my grandmother I went to buy drinking water and helped my sister to buy cheap goods from abroad. I think that also help people writing articles on this website because I provide them with interesting information. I do not asking for money and no one pays for me it. I am a versatile person and I do not oppose any form of assistance.

Why I'm helping people

I´m helping people because just it fills me. Clearly helping other people have other benefits, such as getting new friends, consolidating relationships, and helping to getting material wealth. However, helping people purely for the benefit of the material can cause disappointment because material benefits can not always appear. For me, the best benefit is that I help people and this fills me.

On my journeys, I have often met with helping people, and their often help was for me vital. For example, in Mallorca, the local people gave me drinking water, because in mountains wasn´t drink water and shops where I could buy it . Likewise, one Frenchman, after having been introduced before, drove me up into a deadly hill, which also proved vital to me. Examples of journeys where people helped me go to dozens and is for publish book.

The only thing which I regret is that I did not take from those people contact To thank them for their help and maybe help them in the future. This was also one of the reasons why I founded this blog. To stay in touch with these people.

However, something good came from helping these people me. It has inspired me in a certain way, and I have also begun to help people, not only on the abroad but also at home. I started reading the literature about why to help people and give 10% of their profits or time to help charities or people nearby.

Recommended literature

To go giver – Bob Burg, John David Mann

“Most people just laugh when they hear that the secret to success is giving. . . . Then again, most people are nowhere near as successful as they wish they were.”

The Go-Giver tells the story of an ambitious young man named Joe who yearns for success. Joe is a true go-getter, though sometimes he feels as if the harder and faster he works, the further away his goals seem to be. Desperate to land a key sale at the end of a bad quarter, he seeks advice from the enigmatic Pindar, a legendary consultant referred to by his many devotees sim­ply as the Chairman.

Over the next week, Pindar introduces Joe to a series of “go-givers”: a restaurateur, a CEO, a financial adviser, a real estate broker, and the “Connector” who brought them all together. Pindar’s friends teach Joe the Five Laws of Stratospheric Success and help him open himself up to the power of giving.

Joe learns that changing his focus from getting to giving—putting others’ interests first and continually adding value to their lives—ultimately leads to unexpected returns.

Imparted with wit and grace, The Go-Giver is a classic bestseller that brings to life the old proverb “Give and you shall receive.”

Nearly a decade since its original publication, the term “go-giver” has become shorthand for a defining set of values embraced by hundreds of thousands of people around the world. Today this timeless story continues to help its readers find fulfillment and greater success in business, in their personal lives and in their communities.

The seven spiritual laws of success – Deepak Chopra

A Practical Guide to the Fulfillment of Your Dreams This is a book you will cherish for a lifetime, for within its pages Deepak Chopra offers a life-altering perspective on the attainment of success. Filled with timeless wisdom, the essence of his teachings is distilled into seven simple, yet powerful principles that can easily be applied to create success and abundance in all areas of your life. Over 3 million copies sold worldwide.

In this book Deepak Chopra describes the deeper spiritual context of giving and its karmic consequences. The book not only describes the benefits of giving, but also teaches us how to live full-fledged spiritual life.

Finally

I want you to understand that constant helping people is not optimal. If you just give and the other people only takes without offering you something, then I would say that this person is just using you. Equally helping people who do not want help is also not good.

Man must use intuition and common sense to understand when makes sense to giving and when not. It is said that we should give only 10% of our profit or time to help others. It sounds sensible because if someone acts like Mother Teresa and wants 100% of his time to devote himself to giving and assisting, then he can get into serious living problems and I think that will not bring to luck for this person.

Every extreme is bad, so you can helping people´s, but everything with measure.

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