Welcome to the Philippines, it is very fun in the Philippines. There is 7101 island waiting for your adventure in the Philippines. We all know that Philippines is very beautiful country, very tropical country. There is many beautiful beaches and so much adventure to do in the Philippines. There is so many native restaurant and very delicious native Filipino dish, everybody loves Filipino food. Everybody who been in the Philippines they always come back in the Philippines. But the Question is why the tourist keep coming back in this beautiful Country.
So why is really the tourist keep coming back in the Philippines, is it because the Philippines is beautiful. I am pretty sure there is many reason why the tourist keep coming back to the Philippines. But I know exactly why the tourist keep coming back to this Country. Philippines has a lot to offer to all the travelers, specially for a man traveler. Philippines has a lot of beautiful woman and entertainment, night life and more. Most of the man traveler who been in the Philippines once they always coming back. It is because they find Filipina woman are very beautiful inside and out, family oriented.
The Worst Thing About Married To A Filipina, Money Problem,
Some of the man travelers are single and divorced, some of them are looking for serious relationship. And some of the man travelers is only looking for fun and excitement. Most of the tourist man in the Philippines will end up having a relationship with the Filipina woman. Some of the tourist will end up married to a Filipina in the Philippines, or they are going back with their Filipina girlfriend to their Country and get married there. After the foreigner man is married to the Filipina woman, they always has an issue about the Family of the Filipina.
So what is it the worst thing about married to a Filipina. Well when you really think about your Filipina wife it is the best feelings. Because Filipina woman is very loving, caring, good heart, Family oriented. But most of Filipina woman is very scared to stand on their feet, they always think of their Family even they are already married. Which is very wrong, in my opinion the Filipina should never think like this. Because once you are already married you have your own Family already so you should focus on your own Family.
I am a Filipina who is married to American National and I live in United States now. And I really wanna express my opinion about the Filipina Family problem, specially about money. Most of the Family of the Filipina who are married in the Foreigner man, is thinking about money all the time. Which is very unbelievable my Family never ever ask for money to me or to my husband. Because they know that they are not my obligation, even if I was single they can't force me to give them anything.
To all the Filipina who are married to the Foreigner man, I just wanna say please let your Family know that they are not your obligation. Your husband obligation is only you and your children, this is sounds very selfish but this is the right thing to do. The Family of the Filipina is always forcing their daughter to send them money. They don't even think about the life of their daughter, or happiness of their daughter. All they are thinking is always money, because their daughter is married to a foreigner.
They don't even think about that the Foreigner and Filipino people are the same. Foreigner is also like Filipino who work hard so they will survive in life. They are not a bank machine or even they are super duper rich Family of the Filipina should never ask anything. It is very ashamed for me because I am also a Filipina who is married to a Foreigner. And everything I look online I see many Foreigner has a big problem about the Family of Their wife who always ask for money. And its very sad because their Filipina wife can't even stand on her husband side and say to her Family that please stop it.
To all the Family of the Filipina who is married to a Foreigner National please stop thinking that the Foreigner is rich. And the Family of the Filipina wife should never think that they are the obligation of the husband of their daughter. It is very wrong, Foreigner maybe has a little bit more money on Filipino people. But they are working hard to get what they have now, and they deserve to be treated like a human being not a Bank ATM. Your kids is not obligate to support their Parents, or sister, or lazy brother.
I really want the Filipino people to change their thinking about Foreigner. Most of the Filipino is only using the foreigner and they always thinking of take advantages of Foreigner. Everybody who never been to a Foreign Country will never understand the life of Foreigner. But the Filipino who is been to the Foreign Country, they know that life is also hard for the Foreign people. The reason why I write this post is to let the Filipino Know. That all the Race is the same human being either White or Black or Filipino we are all the same.
I really do understand that some of the people in the Philippines is very poor. Believe me I am one of the poor people in the Philippines, but I never take advantage in other people. It is very not nice to hear when your Daughter or Sister are married to a Foreigner. Then you are the obligation of her husband, Just think about it. The Filipina has 10 siblings and parents and they are all sitting in the house waiting for the husband of their sister or daughter to send them money. That is very wrong, everybody should work hard and help their parents, and that would be very nice and fair.
I know some the Filipino will never be agree on my post, but sorry I just wanna express what is really not right about Filipino people. Everybody should be fair and unfair to each other. Because each of us are trying to find way to survive in life, but it should be a good way. And no one should be suffering because of their Family happiness, it is very not good. Specially when the Filipina is living in Foreign Country, you have no idea how much they sacrifice just to give their Family anything what they have. So don't force your Daughter or Sister to send you money, you should just wait. If they give you anything its good, even in emergency nobody should force someone to give you anything. This is the worst thing about married to a Filipina.
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